Friday, 17 February 2017

The Saga of Departed Wife

Short Story
Mohan Kothekar
Writer and Blogger

       It is indeed the responsibility of the Indian parents to bolster children, even when they became adult and married.  It is imbibed in the Indian ethos and culture; no doubt, in the modern era fractures and fissures has partly shattered the traditional Indian institution and psyche, however, the proportion is minimal.  If the couple is a senior citizen and a retired lot, then practically it is easy to manage the show; the travel plan synchronizes as per the schedule, provided the children are out stationed.  But, if one is in the service or in the business and the other is a homemaker, then things are little different and if the children are residing in Trump’s country then it is practically difficult to plan a tour.


      After a lot of difficulties, the wife reaches America to support daughter-in-law during her delivery.  Before departing, she tried her level best to make all possible arrangements so that her husband, I mean myself, will not face any adversity during her absence.  The admonition continued for at least a fortnight to acquaint me about the location of each and every household material and also made me vigilant about cook and maid’s spurious activities.  The extra and unwanted things were already stored under lock and key; the cook and especially maid were abysmally threatened regarding punctuality and sincerity.  I was bitterly expostulating and chided for my generous and charitable disposition that has puffed up and insolent the entire household working force.  Last but not the least, the neighbors were told to look after the house and me as she has too little faith on her disheveled spouse.  With tears in eyes (not the crocodile tears) we reach the airport, but not without pile of reprimands to her better half.  This was her first journey without her spouse; she abused the state government for not granted leave to me during her voyage.


      The next morning began with ting tong bell sound.  Sweeper asked me about madam’s journey; whether she received vegetarian meal or not, etc.  The near and dear along with servants were equally worried about her excursion.  The first week was quite difficult to follow the daily rituals; I was compelled to take wife’s assistance through Skype, WhatsApp package so as to locate the goods but not without her cheesy speech.  The cook, maid and my immediate neighbors were well versed regarding location of household material rather than me, even though I am residing in the same house and with the same spouse from last three and half decades.


      One day the green grocer asked me ‘Uncle! Where is madam?’  I said, ‘she had gone to USA for daughter-in-law’s delivery.’  He charged me Rs 5 for 250 grams of lady finger.  Before I left the grocer’s stall, the nearby lady inquired me about madam’s journey and started purchasing a lady finger.  She asked the rate of lady finger.  The grocer replied ‘Rs 8.’  It was shocking for me.  The lady said, ‘you cheater, don’t make us fool, I will pay Rs 2 only.’  The Grocer said, ‘Sister, the inflation rate has increased; our purchasing cost is Rs 6, so, pay Rs 7.’  The lady said, ‘don’t tell me any reason, I will pay Rs 5 only, you looter!’  The lady left the shop by paying Rs 5.  The grocer said, ‘Sir, unless these ladies negotiates and cursed me, they never purchase, therefore the rate for ladies is Rs 8, your wife is a hard nut to break but is a caressing lady, she supports us as and when financial help is required, because of your wife I am depositing a fixed amount in the recurring account of our post office.’



     During a month’s time, many known and unknown faces inquired me regarding where about of my spouse.  Actually, I get bored to tell everybody the same story repeatedly.  That day the bakery owner was interrogating me, and, I told him that she divorced.  He laughed and in South Indian stylish tone said, ‘sir, you are joking sir, how she will get separated from you, sir, such a gentle and civilized lady she is, sir, she will come after delivery, sir, don’t get perturbed, sir.’ And added to my knowledge, ‘sir, have you opened Sukanya Samrudhi Youjana account (higher rate of interest deposit scheme for girl child) in nationalized bank for your granddaughter, sir?’ I replied, ‘No, I have no idea about such scheme?’  He continued, ‘Sir, all girls of our colony is account holder, sir, due to your wife, sir.  Your wife is a humble and descent lady, sir, she takes care of one and all, sir, you are lucky, sir, it is difficult to get such a company, sir, and, sir, you speak bad about her, sir!’
     


      We blessed with granddaughter; many known and unknown entities congratulated me; I have distributed more than five kg of sweets.  One fine morning, while clipping my hairs, Gents saloon owner accused me that I am a niggard as I have not shared joy and happiness by distributing sweets to him.  He further said, ‘I think by now aunt has visited LA and LV.’ ‘What stands for LA and LV?’ I queried.  ‘Uncle, don’t make me a fool, I mean Los Angles and Los Vegas!’ he said.  I asked him, ‘Is she your client?  How you know about my wife’s visit to USA?’ ‘No uncle, she is not my client, we are in this colony for years together, so, uncle, we knew each other. You know, uncle, because of aunt we are self sufficient.  Because of her efforts, we all shop owners have NPS from last five years.’ He said and continued, ‘Uncle, we have no lifelong pension like you, so we are depositing fixed amount every month in National Pension Scheme (NPS). So, after sixty years of age, we will get pension throughout our life. Aunt is a nice and cooperative lady, she would have definitely given sweets to me; she is not like you!’


 
      On Sunday afternoon when I was in deep slumber, the bell rang, unknown lady handed over Rs 500.  I asked, ‘Who are you? Why you are paying Rs 500?’ She could not answer properly.  Immediately, neighboring lady explained me the story in detail.  In colony self help group is formed to assist the servant class during financial stress.  My wife and few more ladies from the colony are maintaining the cash as well as the record.  In the initial stages, it started with Rs 1000, the amount then generously donated by right-minded ladies from the community.  The neighbor added to my knowledge that at present there are more than 300 ladies members and total transaction of amount in each month is in lacks.  I asked, ‘if any servant has not given the money back and ran away then?’  The neighbor said, ‘It never happens, the needing ladies compel her to pay the amount with paltry interest, otherwise, the chain will get broken and no-one will get benefited from the scheme.’


        Our daily needs centre young boy of ten has a totally different story.  I simply asked him with an inquisitive gesture about the cost of the egg.  He replied with wrath, ‘uncle, if you will purchase the white potato, then I will make a call to aunt! If she scolds you in anger, then I shall not be held responsible!’  I ask ‘Why you will call her? What is white potato? What mistake I have committed? I am just asking you the price! Don’t threaten me, my boy!’  The young lad said, ‘Look, barring two families, ours is a pure vegetarian colony, it is a sin and offence to call it an egg, so, aunt named it white potato!  Uncle, I am not touching those eggs, otherwise, she will not allow me to assist her during Ganapati and Durga festival decoration!’  I inquired, ‘Your aunt knows how to decorate and manage?’  He added to my knowledge sarcastically and that too without fear and fervor, ‘Uncle, you must know, she is the best decorator and event manager; because of aunt all the programs in our colony are successfully arranged!  Otherwise, it is practically difficult to organize them!  You have to exert it.  She is not like you.  You simply come and go.  Your contribution is zero.  You behave like an officer; you are not doing any work at home; aunt is doing everything!’  I get clean bowled.


      One fine evening, one gentleman has knocked the front door.  He has given me invitation card and requested to attain the show.  He said, ‘Madam is in the USA so you come and join our program!’  I came to know from the gentleman that in nearby school the ladies of our colony take care of poor and intelligent students.  Each one has adopted one student and ladies are paying student’s fees, donate the books and uniform to them for the last two decades.  The selfless service they are rendering is noteworthy.  He continued, ‘In the selfish world to have such personalities is a rare commodity.  The zeal and zest with which these women are rendering their services is exemplary.  Most of the students do not know who is paying their fees; who is providing uniform, books, pencils and pens?’
         


      My general observation is my office driver who is tall, macho and bachelor has very high and cordial relations with my wife.  Every day, whenever he will come to our house, he will first go to the kitchen and discuss at length with my spouse while relishing his breakfast.  He will come out of the kitchen as and when the lunch box will be ready.  One day, I intentionally entered in kitchen and aghast to find that my driver was enjoying the meal.  Before I asked anything my wife retorted, ‘let him eat, he is alone, don’t disturb him, don’t rebuke him, he is like my son!’  I was speechless.  Whenever I was on tour, my spouse used to give two Tiffin boxes, a bigger one for my driver and the smaller one for me.  He has been instructed to take lunch on time; so, wherever we are at twelve noon, the driver will stop the vehicle and force me to take the lunch.  His other habit was to stop the car near the orchard or green field and pick up fresh fruits, vegetables, cereals and grains by paying a small amount.  He used to take advantage of the famous quote ‘from producer to consumer.’  I often asked him about the payment, his fixed reply is, ‘It is our trade secret.  My duty is to provide the material and madam’s duty is to prepare dishes.  Sir, I have not seen such a lady in my life who is taking utmost care of her husband and his assistant equally!  In this era who love the driver like a son!  A big hearted individual having sympathy for the poor, her name is madam!’


   

      While strolling in the park, the unknown elderly man asked me, ‘When your wife is coming to India?  I have not seen her from the last few months.’ I said, ‘She will come after two months.  By the way, may I know about you please, sir?’  He introduced to me.  He was a staff serving in a nearby nursing home.  He narrated a totally different story.  My wife and a few ladies from our colony are collecting unused medicine from nearby societies and distributing it to the needy patients from his nursing home.  I purposefully asked, ‘Why you people are not collecting those unused medicines?’  He said quietly, ‘Brother, one must require guts and leadership qualities that I am lacking.  See, your wife is doing yeoman duties for the destitute with missionary zeal.  Sometimes, her group collects donations from the wealthy families and purchased medicines for the poor people.  You are lucky to have such a nice and kind hearted wife.  My salutations to her for noble duties, she performed.  God bless you both!’


      After three and half decades of my association with her, I did not know about her vast popularity.  She was far more decent, debonair, discreet and polite than the average lady.  Never in dream had I thought about my wife’s involvement in so many social activities.  Some of them were realized when I came in contact with the concerned public.  Her affection and love, breast and kindness for the below poverty line masses was par excellence.  She used to do charity and a support to students and patients by donating a paltry sum from her pocket money is outstanding and noteworthy.  I was unaware about her outlandish facet of her life; she was famous in the colony for the noble and lofty causes.  Her stature was princely and highborn.  What I knew is simply the darker side of her life.  My firm belief was that she is a belligerent, pugnacious, quarrelsome and brawler lady.  A short temper woman who is a miser and narrow minded who is basically having laggard and niggard qualities.  On and often I used to tease her regarding her daffy and brutish, goofy and lumpish attitude.  I inwardly used to murmur, ‘What an eccentric, bizarre and grotesque lady she is!’  Her temporary departure from my life has not only transformed my attitude, but altogether metamorphosed my views regarding her.  I am not sympathetic about her; however, I started to love her from the core of my heart.  The modern Romeo is anxiously waiting for his Juliet.


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